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1d:["$","p","p-10",{"children":"I was astounded. She dismissed me. And did so by name. She dismissed me after telling me how I had finessed her and dismissed her after I slept with her."}]
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20:["$","p","p-13",{"children":"She paused for a minute, cocked her head to the side as if pondering my question, and screwed her face up."}]
21:["$","p","p-14",{"children":"\"You disgust me. I don't know if you're playing or not, but if you are or aren't, you're still sick. I can't believe I gave myself to you and thought we could have something. You're no better than an animal.\""}]
22:["$","p","p-15",{"children":"No matter how hard I tried, I could not remember her name or face. This beautiful woman had been a nameless, faceless character in my summer break's stage play, and now I couldn't even remember the role she had played."}]
23:["$","p","p-16",{"children":"Even though she had tried to hide it from me, and I had tried to hide it from my heart, it was obvious that she had been hurt by that event."}]
24:["$","p","p-17",{"children":"I tried to hide it from my heart because when I looked in her eyes, I saw the pain and humiliation, but even more, I saw the depth of her beauty and the sweetness in her spirit--a spirit that I had diminished"}]
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26:["$","p","p-19",{"children":"But at that time, I had no idea how to stop the charade. Any solution I could think of involved facing the pain left to me by my first love, and the pain I was certain had been waiting for me for all my life."}]
27:["$","p","p-20",{"children":"When I felt the disgust, I felt a twinge of pain for the way I had been treating women who were trying to love me."}]
28:["$","p","p-21",{"children":"And when the pain tried to come down, I welcomed the darkness."}]
29:["$","p","p-22",{"children":"Darkness had protected my heart from the pain life and love brought me. And even now, as some women seemed to be willing to bring me anything but pain, I was still afraid."}]
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2b:["$","p","p-24",{"children":"I had seen these things in many of the women who I used for sexual purposes, but the pain and darkness that surrounded my heart, combined with my immaturity and the confusion that clouded my days prevented me from acknowledging anything but their sexuality."}]
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2f:["$","p","p-28",{"children":"I was learning about the feeling of love and the act of loving from the friendships that I had developed and from the insight that I was cultivating, even as I did whatever I could to sabotage love."}]
30:["$","p","p-29",{"children":"The more I grew as a person, the more I knew that the ways in which I was dealing with sex and love were wrong. And even though I knew better, it would be a while before I could actually do better. It was, after all, the mind that was learning. My heart was still mired in the protective shell I had used to protect it from pain of love and life."}]
31:["$","p","p-30",{"children":"I was disconnected."}]
32:["$","p","p-31",{"children":"My mind was disconnected from my heart, and my mind often seemed to be detached from my own physical presence. While the mentality may have been maturing, the heart and the physicality--specifically where lust was concerned--were stuck in a time warp."}]
33:["$","p","p-32",{"children":"The act of living can be a voluntary experience to be cherished as it is experienced, as well as in retrospect. But when life is filled with trauma and madness and mayhem, it can be an involuntary act, filled with numbness and darkness, and only the faint hope of reaching a piece of light at some corner of the darkness."}]
34:["$","p","p-33",{"children":"The more I grew, the stronger the light became. Only light can destroy darkness."}]
35:["$","p","p-34",{"children":"Eventually, I understood the difference between the light and the darkness, and I embraced the light."}]
36:["$","p","p-35",{"children":"As an adult, the light became a foot soldier in my battle against the darkness."}]
37:["$","p","p-36",{"children":"I triumphed over darkness."}]
38:["$","p","p-37",{"children":"These days, my life is filled with light and the promise of more light to come. There is very little threat of darkness and past darkness has been processed and lightened."}]
39:["$","p","p-38",{"children":"And now I live in light."}]
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