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1d:["$","p","p-6",{"children":"Being single and over forty is scary for men and infinitely more frightening for women, because while God makes more girls than boys, there are more boys getting married, leaving less available marriage prospects for the girls."}]
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21:["$","p","p-10",{"children":"And, the woman under forty is also increasing her chances at success by dating older. The men her age are likely less mature, still pursuing career goals over starting a family and accordingly, unprepared for marriage and commitment when the younger woman is ready. Dating older men will increase the likelihood that the relationship will lead to marriage, while decreasing the chances of being in a relationship based mostly on sex and fun with no clear direction."}]
22:["$","p","p-11",{"children":"Of course, there are exceptions to every rule, but as long as the world has been round, older men have pursued younger women. While an older woman may be viewed as living in the winter of her discontent, for the younger woman, every day is Valentine's Day and every night is New Year's Eve."}]
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24:["$","p","p-13",{"children":"Dating is a complicated venture and difficult to launch properly. The most salient piece of advice that anyone could give is to step outside of your comfort zone. If the world is changing, you must change with it."}]
25:["$","p","p-14",{"children":"One solution for single women is to be unafraid of initiating contact. If fewer men are approaching you, the odds can still be increased in your favor by simply saying \"hello.\" An older gentleman may be recently divorced and after being out of the game for a while, just may not be interested in approaching every woman he sees."}]
26:["$","p","p-15",{"children":"If you are in a city where the pickings of single men in your age range are slim, perhaps you should be open to dating outside of your area. We've heard that long distance relationships rarely work, but that typically refers to younger people who have a hard time remaining focused."}]
27:["$","p","p-16",{"children":"Older women should also be open to sharing the burdens and responsibilities of dating. If there are fewer gentlemen offering to wine and dine you, perhaps you should demonstrate that you are willing to be a partner instead of another line item in his budget. An older man is probably taking his finances more seriously in preparation for the retirement years and dropping less cash on dates that may prove to be unproductive."}]
28:["$","p","p-17",{"children":"And, finally, the same formula for younger women applies to older women: Date older men. For every forty-ish woman who cannot find suitable mates in her age range, there are older gentlemen who would delight in the pleasure of wooing a younger woman, treasuring her maturity, while finding value in her relative youth, when compared to his own age."}]
29:["$","p","p-18",{"children":"The reality is that May/December romances traditionally work well even when both parties are close to December."}]
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